Out of the mouths of babes.

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Out of the mouths of babes.


I had the grand pleasure of spending the afternoon yesterday with a five-year old.  Since my own chldren are older now (my “baby” is 17) I had forgotten about seeing Christmas through the eyes of a small child.  Michelle is the granddaughter of a friend.  She was shy at

first and didn’t talk.  To engage her, I asked if she wanted to see our Christmas tree. 

Tree in the Parlor....with its finishing touches by Michelle.

Of course she did!  She took my hand and we walked to the parlor where our tree is.  I had just finished decorating it and the boxes and assorted left-over decorations were still on the floor, lending the look of the same tornadic clutter that used to be under the tree after our children finished opening presents.

Her eyes opened wide at what I thought was awe of my beautiful 9 foot Frasier fir standing proudly with blue and white lights and similar themed ornaments.  Then she looked at me and asked…”can we finish decorating it?”  She had decided it just simply wasn’t done.  I asked her what else it needed and she went right for the red and black Moroccan bows I had from a tree of Christmas past.  “THESE!”  So after we finished tying those on, we had to put on a few mis-matched ornaments I wasn’t intending to use because they didn’t match my picture of what the tree should look like.  She asked me about each ornament and my answer reminded me why I was keeping them in the first place.  “This is one my husband made.”  “This one my daughter gave me as a gift.”  ….and so on.  Why hadn’t I put them up to begin with??? 

A few extra ornaments to remind us to look to our hearts at Christmastime.

When Michelle was satisfied with her work on the tree, she asked about the rest of the ornaments and I explained that many came from a pretend


Christmas tree that I have but wasn’t going to use because we had this real one.    She said if I had it then it was real and I should put it up.  When asked where should we put it, she marched about the house and made her decision.  Right in the hallway. She explained: that way people can see it from either door they come in, from the kitchen, or if going down the hall to another room or to bed upstairs.  She figured the hall was the one spot where everyone could see it.  She thought my tree in the parlor was too hard to find.  So…taken with her spirit, I went and got that tree.  Michelle and I put it up in the hallway.  It’s decoration job is truly beautiful.  All of the ornaments are in a blob about 2.5 feet off the ground.  I asked her if we should spread them out a bit….”no, this way I can see them too.”  I was taken by the thought that young children live in a sea of legs.  Pictures are hung high in the room, windows are out of their line of vision too.  She wanted to see all the ornaments on the tree. 

Young Children like to see the beautiful things in the world too!

SOOOOO….if you visit Bygone Basics this year.  We have a tree in the hallway, and yes I plan to leave it there, and yes, it is fully decorated.

My Christmas wish is that each of us is blessed with seeing the wisdom of young children.

The best place in the house for a Christmas Tree


About vkhanson

Travel back to simpler times. Experience for yourself the heritage skills of your choosing. Enjoy hearty foods and beverages while hands-on experiencing soap making, bread making, home canning, making jams and jellies, pies and more. Learn how these skills were made using old tools and seeing how today's technology can cut time and effort to a serious minimum. This is all undertaken in an 140 year old home, beautifully preserved. Now...you can stay here too! Amanda's Bequest, a Heritage Farmstay Bed & Breakfast is now available at Bygone Basics. An absolutely fabulous experience while gaining skills you will use to reduce food costs, ensure the safety of your foods, and re-live a piece of heritage that is fast becoming lost. Travel down Old Channel trail in Montague enjoying the magnificent view above White Lake. Enter Bygone Basics, located in the impressive parsonage, now known as "Amanda's Bequest," built in 1874 for the Ferry Memorial Church and then painstakenly moved (Rather than be destroyed). This is a great activity for female friends, bridal parties, generations of families, spouses, co-workers and so on. Each group is privately held so no extra people are involved. It is held in an atmosphere of laughter, great stories, and hearty food. Each Experience is priced based on the number of persons in the group and the type of experience. Times are flexible. Remember....a gift certificate would be a fabulous idea to ensure quality time with a friend or someone else who is special.

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  1. What a great story. Thanks to both you and Michelle for the perspective.
    Merry Christmas!


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